http://groups.yahoo.com/group/rb_afterdark/

Readers:

This is a great place to discuss all your favorite romance authors! Share your favorite scenes and even find new authors to read. Add to your to-be-read list. See lots of sexy hunks every day! What more can you want, right?

Writers:

Promote your own books. Share great reviews and let readers know about upcoming contests. Share your writing successes and your woes. Discuss the politics of romance publishing...let your hair down and have fun chatting with your readers and fellow writers!

(Open to all who are 18 or over)

Also:

We’ll be doing author days very soon, so join now and get a feel for the place.